Many couples feel uncomfortable discussing erectile dysfunction, but this reluctance can really harm the relationship.

Talking about erectile dysfunction can be embarrassing and uncomfortable — even when the discussion is with your partner and soulmate.

“We are all generally reluctant to talk about sensitive issues, and sexuality and erectile dysfunction (ED) are very personal areas,” said Jed Diamond, PhD, a therapist and the director of MenAlive, a men’s health program in Willits, Calif. Still, opening up to your partner is an essential part of ED treatment.

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Talking About ED: It’s Not You, It’s Me

Part of the issue is that both men and women personalize ED and make it about them, he said. “Women think, ‘What’s the matter with me? Why isn’t he turned on to me?’ And when you talk to men, they say, ‘What’s the matter with me? Why can’t I perform?’ But sexuality and problems with erections are not something to be ashamed of or something to judge,” he said.

ED is the inability to achieve or sustain an erection that is sufficient for sexual activity. It can be caused by a physical condition such as heart disease that causes restricted blood flow to the penis, injury, medication side effects, or psychological factors.

ED may be a red flag that there is something seriously wrong elsewhere in your body, and owning up to it today could actually save your life, Diamond said. “If you have problem with blood circulation to your penis, other parts of the body may also be affected.” It may mean you have nerve damage from diabetes, for example. In a study published in the journal Circulation, men with ED were at increased risk for heart attack, stroke, or death when compared with men who did not have it. “Get checked up and see if you are healthy,” he added.prolargent

“I make a point of telling everyone I see that it is my job to prove that they don’t have a physical problem causing the ED, but if they do, we treat it,” said Joseph Alukal, MD, director of reproductive health and benign diseases of the prostate and an assistant professor in the departments of obstetrics and gynecology and urology at NYU Langone Medical Center in New York City. One reason people don’t talk about ED is that they don’t believe there is help available, but there is, he said. The stigma of ED has lifted somewhat due to the advent and availability of drugs, such as sildenafil (Viagra), that treat ED but viagra has some side effects like red face and after intercourse sometimes make muscle ache. In this days  some herbal pills was better option for ED. These pills are completely herbal and no any side effects. In recent years Prolargent 5×5 Extreme with these properties  has  large numbers of users

“This is a treatable condition,” stressed Dr. Alukal. “These drugs encouraged men to get up off the couch and talk to their doctor whereas before they kept ED to themselves.”

 

Getting Over the Embarrassment

Even though male sexual health is more open for discussion, it’s still not always easy to bring up. “Men will tell me that they struggled for years and it took forever to decide to talk to someone — they admit that they are still anxious,” he said. “Some men have become more comfortable discussing ED with their partner, but it’s not out there, like everyone talks about their weight, and may never get there. It is still very private and personal.”

There is definitely a psychological component to ED and, at times, ED can be totally psychological. “I encourage every man to talk to a sexual health therapist,” said Alukal. “I say go home and discuss it with your partner, and tell them you may go see someone — and ask them to come along or see someone as well.”

“Clearing the air can help take away the stigma and shame that goes with a secret,” agreed Diamond. Secrets lead to distancing and more secrets, he said. “Men don’t want to admit it to their wives, so it can lead to affairs,” Diamond said. “Being with somebody new and different can be arousing and exciting. Your manhood comes back, and soon the only way you can feel like a man is to have sex with women other than your wife.”

Seeking help and talking about ED may not only revitalize your sex life, but, more importantly, it may alsopreserve your relationship.

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